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Sep 19, 2012 1:16 PM

My husband called me on my way home from church a couple of weeks ago and told me he was leaving the house and wants a divorce. Since then, he comes home each night to see our son and leaves to spend the night elsewhere. He also comes back for the weekend and stays at the house and does his laundry. He is continuing to support the household, but has a lack of respect for me and does not inform me of when he plans to come by and what his intentions are. He has put his phone on its own plan as it was on mine, but has not served any papers nor have we had any discussion as to the house or the finances, other than to say he doesn't want? "the state" to get involved, whatever that means. I told him that he cannot have his cake and eat it too and that he couldn't spend the night at the house and he said it was his house too and threatened to withhold financial support. My mother, who is also on the title to the house and lives with us, and I can pay the bills so that isn't much of a threat at this point.......I want to stand for my marriage and I'm glad he's spending time with his son but this boomerang behavior is emotionally taxing and disruptive to say the least. He texts our son but won't text me or call me. I don't want to file for divorce and there is no legal seperation in our state. He says his relationship with the OW is over, but I don't know if I believe him or not. I am at my wits end and am not sure how to handle this...... please any advice would be an encouragement!

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